Sugar Daddies can spoil their Sugar Babies in dozens and dozens of different ways. This might come in the form of cash, gift cards, and allowance, in the form of vacations, hotel stays, and travel, in the form of spa appointments, hair appointments, and nail appointments, in the form of dates and adventures, in the form of tuition payment, bill payment, or rent payment, the list goes on and on and on. How do you decide what to ask for? How much is too much? Can you ask for something different than what you are getting? At SugarFetch, we are here to support you in any and every way we can with information and advice for struggles like these.
In short, yes. There is certainly a best case scenario, and that involves both of you getting what you deserve. If you spend a lot of time together in person, a sugar daddy may prefer for part of your spoiling to be through clothing, makeup, hair appointments, things that benefit your physical appearance. If your relationship involves more conversation through the phone, video chat, and texting, spoiling might come in other forms. There is no right answer, as each situation is so different and unique.
It is important that regardless of what payment you are receiving, you are expressing sincere and honest gratitude for each gift. While the men in these relationships are very successful and they want to spoil their sugar baby, they are not willing to give to someone who either is ungrateful for their gifts, or not holding up their end of the deal.
Payment is a tricky topic when it comes to literally every arrangement ever. It is uncomfortable to ask for more spoiling, it is frustrating when you feel that it is not fair for what you are putting into it, and everyone’s definition of fairness when it comes to relationships is different. The best way to work through this obstacle within your relationship is to be open and honest about how you feel about your it and what would make you feel more appreciated. Communication is the foundation of any real, successful relationship, and sugar relationships are no different. Without the trust of being able to openly, honestly, and truthfully communicate with one another, there is simply no way for the relationship to be healthy. This is one aspect that starts from the very beginning, and it is imperative that it only strengthens throughout the entirety of the relationship.
At the end of the day, those that want to be involved in sugar relationships want to please and to be pleased. The method of spoiling for that is different in each circumstance, and varies from person to person. Communicate and be grateful for what you receive, that is a major key to success in sugar dating.